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Personal Development is a powerful weapon to counteract the numerous negative thoughts that plagues us. Napoleon Hill writes in the book “Think and Grow Rich” that if you can conceive it you can achieve it. If the path to riches was a marathon, then thoughts would be considered the first step. Thoughts that are conducive to success will keep failure at bay. Have you no matter how hard you tried could not remember a thought from a few minutes earlier?

The foundation of all success starts with a thought. If your success is built on your thoughts, then using personal development as a tool would be the cement blocks. Your thoughts are important because your thoughts in turn become your words. For example, if your mind is filled with negative self talk, then your words will derail your success. You must fill up your mind with positive thoughts through personal development.

I am not talking about the rah-rah pump it up positivity temporary fix; no I am talking about goal driven thoughts. I remember when I sold a very expensive product door to door our supervisor always had these meetings that were purely rah-rah pump you up and send you out the door. He really believed that these meetings were the highlight of the day. This concept did not work because it was one to two hours before you got into your first home to present the product. You had to be able to motivate yourself through personal development by listening to tapes and reading books.

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For example, it can happen that you are deeply disappointed in someone and it can shatter your heart and your soul into pieces, making you feel highly betrayed, deceived and short changed. It is at this time that you must let the emotions come to the fore and not keep it in.

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Cry your heart out if needed and get rid of the sorrow and feelings of being victimized by life. But like all things, this cannot last forever and when you then get up the next morning, tackle your day with new optimism. Deal with the root of the disappointment, otherwise you will just simply fall into the trap of being perpetually angry with yourself and with life.

Moving beyond duality

The way we move beyond our dualistic tendency is to suspend judgment - to observe without evaluating. When we transcend our ego-personality and come from a place of presence - observing from our heart and soul - we look to the essence of another individual. From this place we suspend what we like and dislike, we suspend our bias, and allow our soul to look at the Truth (not ego-based subjective truth) - a deeper and intuitive true and real sense of another based on respect, tolerance and understanding.

When we suspend judgment, and relate to another from this heart-felt place of expanded consciousness, we’re not driven from a like-dislike perspective; rather, we relate from a place where we can sense, feel and know another for who they are, independent of and regardless of my own personal, ego-based, likes and dislikes. From this place, I can suspend (my ego-based need for) judgment.

When we’re open and accepting of another from a heart-felt place, we find we are similar; we are able to accept their personalities without discomfort, resistance, resentment, or difficulty - as we’re relating on a heartfelt, soul level where love and understanding fill the space between us. Here, we just notice another and respond with a “hmmm, that’s interesting”-type response and move on without a reactive evaluation.

Your character of who you truly are to the core is developed by these habits. Your character in turn determines your destiny. Where you are in live can be traced back to actions or in actions done by you. These negative thoughts will become your future unless you make a conscious effort through personal development to change. Your destiny started from thoughts, so cultivate your thoughts wisely you can be published without charge. You can to republish this article in your website or blog. Please provide links Active.

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