Who would want to do that? But strangely enough we often do things that actually sabotage our efforts to become confident. we would like to be confident but are you also secretly wishing to kill your own confidence?
Do you always try very hard to show your ‘Confidence’ but do not actually have any confidence?
You are not the only one with this problem. There are a lot of people struggling with this problem everyday. Do you know what happens when you resist a thought? It comes back stronger. Now tell me when made up your mind about your confidence? What is your primary reason? Do you hate being Confident? Do you hate the idea of low confidence? Did you go through a bad experience due to your lack of confidence~Do you get bad time due to your low confidence}?
You may have some unconscious blocks that stops you from becoming a confident person. So, what could these blocks be? If you think you can never be confident, think again.

 

Lets check out the some of the most common blocks to self confidence.

 

Don’t Deserve to be confident

 

Difficlut to fathom but lots of people have such a problem. on the outside you may wish to become confident but on the inside you may do not feel like you deserve to be confident. It’s similar to believing you don’t deserve happiness or success. Until you resolve this block, it will be difficult to reach your goals.

 

You have fear of being very confident

 

Sometimes people are more afraid of changes they have to face due to success than due to failures. It’s the same with confidence. If you become confident and begin to fulfill your goals and ambitions, it would bring a lot of change to your world. A lot of people find change to be a very scary thing.

 

Do you believe confidence means arrogance

 

Perhaps you have met people who seemed overly confident - so confident in fact that they came across as arrogant and rather obnoxious. You might be worried that your confidence levels will be unstoppable and transform you into someone you don’t like.
You think certain people are born with a confidence gene and are ‘lucky’

 

You are afraid of others opinion about your new confident self.

 

A lot of us place great value on what others think of us. We are often surrounded by other people who low confidence in themselves and they become our mirrors. This creates a sense of bonding, a feeling of belonging. Our friends and family probably reinforce that. Becoming more confident means changing and sometimes this isn’t favored by those around us - they might be hostile to or jealous of our pursuit of confidence and fulfillment. They might feel threatened too and subsequently you might be worried that you will lose friends.

 

You think you are too shy to be confident
Surprisingly people thing being shy means you should not be confident. In fact if you are shy becoming free from shyness should be a good reason why you want to become confident

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